I wonder if anyone can answer that what could be the most powerful three words of this galaxy?
I Love You! Right? Oh No! I Miss You or may be “I Forgive You”?
But for me, the most powerful three words which actually shakes you up before and right after they have been said are “Let it go”.
Yes! Let it go! Just Play-Pause-Play
Crumpled trust, tumbled doubts, shambled walk-outs, wretched insecurities and dreadful heartaches are few pretexts which hit hard to any dying relationship. And there is no biggest pain of seeing a dying part of your life while you are alive. Death is an irreversible loss which haunts even the hardest soul, so such “emotional deaths” are inevitable in our lifetime. Lucky are those who haven’t seen such “Living Death”.
I know, such words are quite detrimental to one’s peace but that’s those sunsets which have beautiful imminent sunrises.
Sunrises to happiness, love, hope, gain, growth and peace.
Of course! Pain is inevitable but Strength is your choice. Every lost piece of life’s jigsaw puzzle is there in this universe. Every broken piece has another broken piece to fill its gaps. Yours is still there…. Why don’t you go out to find them.
These four walls have nothing to offer you new. Just break’em and explore the lost pieces of your life.
Open your drawer, pick up your camera, hold your book, get into your kitchenette, go to your garage, ride your dreams, wake up early, wear your track pants, dolled up like never before, meet the people who left behind with this pacing life or water your plants.
Just do something which can cure your soul.
Your time is limited so are your pains but your choices aren’t.
Push the grieving parts away; they have nothing new to serve you.
Practice Silence: When you need to let go someone or something, one thing which bashes your soul the most is trillions of unsaid things, unspoken reasons, and untold complaints. But trust me; if it mattered to someone before, you never had to let it go. Just silence your screaming mind, don’t let your doubts turn into bitter words. No! a big No!
Just shut your mind up and love the silence around you. Cut the connection from the outer world and hug your inner circle. This is difficult so letting the thing go off too! It’s your first move towards your healing. Just take it.
Know Your Worth: Understand the fact that you are more worthy than any other relationship or job or loss. Remember you have an identity which doesn’t need others approval. Don’t ever beg for the love which you need to give yourself.
Wake up every morning and kiss your own soul isn’t selfish. It should be your start and end of the day. Imagine can you respect a person who is running behind someone or something to get an acknowledgment. Really? Are you making it so petty? Can you respect such beseeching? No, Love yourself anyway. Don’t give this job to others.
Go On Date With Yourself: Sounds funny? No, it’s not about being lonely, it’s about being ONLY. Only for yourself. Be the one who fits-in in your expectations. Date yourself as much as you can, take offs, explore nature, feed your wanderlust, watch movies, enlarge your spiritual curiosity, try to see people – hustling in their lives – read them but yeah don’t judge them, there is no place for negative monsters in your life while practicing healing.
Pamper yourself as you want others to do it. Law of attraction plays its part. Love attracts love and rejection attracts rejection. Don’t reject yourself.
Darling! The only way to let go is to recognize yourself to the extent where you don’t need to introduce yourself or even to explain yourself to others. People should identify you as a happy and carefree soul.
You have come into this world with an amazing and your own background music. Sometimes it gets un-tune. No worries – Pause, adjust the notes and play it again.
Remember music never dies. One thing which dies is the ability to tune-in.
Play – Pause – Play! You would be the best melody of your life.
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