Few old pictures can never be replaced by any new happy picture and that one picture is my “Gang of Girls” pictures. As we grow, these pictures fade their colour away. We, women, are the most restless souls when it comes to decoding our confusions. The little frustration monster gets us on nerves and that moment the only voice which can help us is the voice of our one “Girlfriend”.
We can have a bunch of friends around us, our soul mate, our family or our kids but above and all at times your solitude needs one best friend- the soul sister- the very own girlfriend. Why these girlfriends are an integral part of your life? Why will you always need your girlfriend? Let’s read:
1. She Is Your Sharing Hub: Be it your first crush or your marital problems, she is the one who is your “Sharing Hub”. Anything which makes a difference in your life, you immediately want to tell her. You rush to her holding your letter of admission or a love text from your boyfriend because you know that your happiness will be doubled with her approval.
2. She Doesn’t Judge You: Having a girlfriend will allow you to pour your heart out without having the feeling of being judged. She never judges you and this is why you can’t hold anything back from telling her. Sometimes we need a genuine approval whether we have committed a mistake and there is no another endearing and confronting pal than your girlfriend.
3. She Is Your Secret-Keeper: Secrets are meant to be kept hidden and there is no other place other than your girlfriend’s heart. This is the best piggy bank to put your life’s all unspoken, untold and unfolded truths because they are safe there and you never know at which point in your life you will need that piggy bank. So ladies, always be in touch with your girlfriend.
4. She Grows With You: It is always the best feeling having your best girlfriend experiencing life altogether. You grow old together so you can easily sync with each other. Your mood swings, your PMS, your emotional drama, your cracky jokes, your menopause, your unreasonable fears and your intruded sadness, she can deal with all and still loves you. So no matter if you are in your 50’s, you always need her to back you.
5. She Is Your First Choice: If you want to know the answer, why do you want your girlfriend in your life? Let me tell you because she was your first choice. Out of all the blessings of your life, she is the one you picked up by yourself; of course, it was destined, though.
6. She Understands And Loves You: We all are wrong. We are wrong somewhere in our life and that’s okay! We are imperfect. Apart from all our nasty decisions of life, your girlfriend will always be there, picking armour in hands, to save you. She won’t listen about you, she will listen to you. She will love you anyway.
Growing old is a beautiful thing but growing old alone is not at all pleasant. You can never feel old if you have your childhood best friend with you. Any day, over a cup of coffee, you can go back to your teenage. Your best friend is the Time-Machine which can take you back in a blink. She is your keeper, she is your journey, she is your mate and she is your strength so just make a call and send a Thank You message to your best friend immediately. Ladies, you will always need your girlfriend, don’t forget that ever. She might be waiting to hear your voice.
Love to all my Girl Friends. ♥
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